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"Gagan
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The
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Tent

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The Big Tent

by I.J. SINGH

 

The past often looks rosy.  Or so we think when we step back into the past, where childhood seems innocent, and homes and neighborhoods idyllic. 

Many modern commentators on Sikhism, too, seem to fall into a similar time warp, but they do have a point.

When the Gurus walked the Earth, Sikhs seemed idealistic and unmatched in the pristine purity of their faith.  The message of the Gurus attracted both Hindus and Muslims - members of the two dominant religions of the day in India.  Even during the immediate post-Guru period, our gurdwaras were teeming with both Muslims and Hindus.

Our relations with non-Sikhs were largely non-controversial and non-confrontational.  I say this despite the many armed conflicts in history with either Hindu or Muslim foes, where many of our allies also came from the same two religions. 

Remember that at the end of Guru Nanak's life, his Hindu followers wanted to cremate him the Hindu way; Muslims honored him by wanting to bury him by Islamic rites.  Each community erected a monument to his memory and both markers still exist in a unique tribute to the founder of Sikhism.

Having come from mostly Hindu ancestry, Sikhs remained culturally closer to them; Hindu-Sikh mixed marriages were common and no one labeled them as interfaith unions; they were not known to endure two different religious rites and wedding vows. 

In gurdwaras, no distinction was ever made between a Sikh and a non-Sikh.  It was not uncommon to find Muslim or Hindu musicians, wearing caps or scarves, performing kirtan (singing of the liturgy) or conducting a reading from the Guru Granth.  Often non-Sikh artists and performers came to gurdwaras to showcase their talents and pay their homage to the Gurus who were unexcelled patrons of classical Indian musicology.

No function in the gurdwara, and no office in it, was ever closed to our non-Sikh brethren.  Large communities of people, such as the Sindhis, were Sikhs to all intents and purposes, except they rarely took on the baana (external visage) of the Khalsa, with the unshorn hair.

Absolutely everyone was welcome in the gurdwara - irrespective of their religious label, or whether one was a recognizable Sikh or not.

Less than forty years ago, the eminent thinker Kapur Singh opined that the religion of Punjab, even of Punjabi Hindus, was Sikhism, whereas Hinduism was merely the culture of all Punjabis, no matter what religion they professed.  Unmistakably, every religion of the world, when in Punjab, has been touched by the faith and practice of Sikhi, and by the universality of Guru Granth.  This is true of both Hinduism and Islam, perhaps even Christianity.

Now, things have changed at an alarming pace.

Look at any gurdwara in India or abroad and there are hardly any Sindhis or Punjabi Hindus that come by; certainly raagis and lecturers who are non-Sikhs or non-recognizable Sikhs are rarer than hen's teeth.

It may never have been quite as edenic as I described it here, but it was never as hellish as it seems to have become.  There is more than a grain of truth in what was.  Why and how has it changed?  That's my mandate to explore today.

Let me start with a set of givens. 

The message of Sikhism and of Guru Granth is entirely inclusive and there is not a line in it to justify excluding those who come to it.  And a good starting definition derived from the Guru Granth is that a Sikh is anyone who calls himself or herself one.  It is not mine or anyone else's business to judge another, so we should refrain from labeling people as good or bad Sikhs. 

All those who call themselves Sikh, then, are on the same path, though not always at the same place on the path.  This includes the amritdhari who lives the life of one, also the amritdhari who falls considerably short; the sehajdhari who lives the lifestyle that he should, and the one who does not; and also one who merely looks like a Sikh and yet is unaware of any of the requirements of a Sikh life; and the one who is an apostate and proudly flaunts it.

The house of the Guru and Guru Granth is for sinners, and not reserved for only perfect Sikhs.  So it is best to not judge others lest we be judged.

So, what is now driving so many non-Sikhs, and some who do not quite look like Sikhs out of the Sikh circle?  There are perhaps as many reasons as there are analysts, but let's probe a few.

Let's come at it a tad tangentially.

Christianity now has over 250 denominations and sects; many refuse to recognize the others as Christians.  Some disallow their members to attend services in the other's church or marry someone from another denomination.  Many variations exist in Christian practices worldwide.  Yet, they all derive their inspiration from the life and teachings of Jesus.

Sikhism is now 500 years old, and we should not expect less, however much we regret it.

With time, perhaps some divisive interpretations of the message are inevitable in living traditions.  All living things and organizations, even those that originate from the same starting point, show change; to some, it is for the better, others find them regressive.

During the first 300 years of its history, there were not yet clear-cut distinct lines drawn between Jewish practices and their Christian adaptations and modifications.  There was also a very strong movement, "Jews for Jesus", that celebrated Jesus as the Jewish Messiah that the Jews were waiting for.  The movement, now considerably smaller, still exists. 

From that time on, Jewish and Christian thought have diverged considerably and progressively, and now it would be asinine for one to claim that Christians are Jews simply because Jesus was one, or that Jesus is the Jewish Messiah.

Similarly, one can argue for overlapping of Hindu and Sikh practices in the early years, but over the last century, largely due to the rise of the Singh Sabha movement as well as a better educated clergy and laity, it would now be very shortsighted not to recognize that the two religions show a growing divergence in theology and its interpretation, and consequently in their practices.

This process of erecting fences between Sikhs and their neighbors has been further hastened by domestic Indian as well as international political realities.

When India became independent in 1947, Punjab, the Sikh homeland, was essentially partitioned into two nations.  Sikhs bore the brunt of the economic loss, as well as that in human lives. The great majority of Sindhis, who straddled the divide between Hinduism and Sikhism, were lost to Sikhs.  For the first time in a millennium, Hindus - the large majority in a free India - felt the power that comes with freedom. 

Each community became engrossed in its own realities; fences between them were a natural corollary.

The successive governments of free India learned to cater, even pander, to the majority that was Hindu to capture their vote banks. (Remember that politicians value head-counts.)   In this power ploy, minorities became further marginalized. This is not the time or the place for an exhaustive exploration of these divisive political realities, but the events of 1984, when the Sikh minority was targeted, and those of Godhra, and others like it, that were aimed at Muslims and Christians, were a predictable result.  (The killings at Godhra by Hindu mobs in 2002, also appear to have been organized and abetted by the government in power at that time and claimed several thousand Muslim lives.)

How would minorities react when they see themselves so besieged?  Obviously, they circle the wagons to protect themselves.  The result: an inevitable alienation from others, though it is contrary to the message of Guru Granth.

In the diaspora, too, Sikhs remain an even smaller minority than in India, even though there are almost a million in North America alone. Our turban and unshorn hair attract the most attention.  More so in the past, but even now, we are sometimes challenged by prospective employers on our bearded and turbaned visage.  Sometimes, the attention is grossly negative, particular post-9/11.

The Sikhs appear divided between those who continue to follow the dictates of the faith and those who have chosen to abandon them, whatever their reasons for doing so. Ideally, this should not become a divisive matter in the Sikh community, particularly where the gurdwara is concerned, for it historically remains equally open to all.

The problem arises when the spokesmen for the community, who have abandoned the markers of their faith, are unable or unwilling to defend the practices of the faith when they represent us to the outside world.  And, then, that impacts the whole community. 

If, then, these people are not given an equally visible place in community leadership, they see it as discrimination and an insult. The other side of the argument is that a minority, finding its practices under siege, wants to put on the stage, in the gurdwara and the world, only those who at least look like role models.

I would tell my turbaned brothers and also those on the other side of the divide, those not so attired, not to be so thin-skinned.  Let's see if we can work through this.

How to resolve this is the question. Either all those who wish to potentially lead us from a gurdwara agree to defend the teachings of what is our code of conduct (Sikh Rehat Maryada), even if they personally fall short of it, or the conflict will continue to escalate. 

If they can openly support our historic teachings and religious requirements in spite of any personal failings of their own, then there should be no reason for conflict between those who are keshadhari and those who are not.

If such a modus operandi seems impossible, then what?

A not so attractive, but perhaps inevitable alternative again comes to me from the Jews.  They are divided largely into Conservative, Orthodox and Reform congregations that have fundamental differences in what a Jewish lifestyle is.  Hence, the respective synagogues of the three are separate, yet when a question arises that is important to the whole Jewish nation, most of them speak with one voice. 

This does not mean that even on matters of substance they do not differ; for example, there exist Jews that do not approve of a Zionist state of Israel.

Much as we dislike the idea of sects within Sikhism, they do exist; just look at Namdharis, Radhaswamis and followers of Harbhajan Singh Yogi, for example.  All religions acquire some with time. 

I can see with time our diaspora Sikhs fissuring along a line that separates those that are keshadhari, whether amritdhari or not, and those that are not recognizable Sikhs, whether they are sehajdhari or apostate.  Or perhaps, it would be a tripartite segmentation: amritdharis, keshadharis but not amritdharis, or unrecognizable Sikhs, whatever their reasons for it.

Perhaps, then, we will also be able to work with each other in matters of discrimination in the work place, and even have some gurdwaras that are happily intermixed.

The umbrella or tent of Sikhism is large and capacious enough to accommodate all those who are on the same path, no matter where on it they are at a given time.  And this is how I see the message of Guru Granth and Sikh historical tradition.

 

ijsingh99@gmail.com

November 13, 2008                                               

Conversation about this article

1: Pritam Singh Grewal (Canada), November 14, 2008, 1:05 AM.

"The Big Tent" reminds me of Prof. Puran Singh's following lines: Punjab naa Hindu naa Muslman, Punjab jeenda Guraan day nam tay. My translation - Punjab is neither Hindu nor Muslim, Punjab lives on the Guru's Name.

2: Harpreet Singh (London, England), November 14, 2008, 7:57 AM.

I don't think that in the long term in the diaspora there will be a fissure of formalized significance as in Judaism. Institutional Sikhi will not allow it. For all those who would in the Jewish equivalence be termed 'liberal Jews / Sikhs' or 'un-orthodox Jews / Sikhs', they will just leave the religion entirely, or drift away completely. Also, I.J. Singh ji, I don't like the term 'apostate'. It makes me think of inquisitions, persecutions, Abrahamic concepts of division, the Islamic idea of 'takfir'. If an individual rejects Sikhi, that is their freedom to do so. Sikhs believe in freedom of religion and freedom of conscience. We should not stigmatize anyone for their spiritual choices.

3: Ajmer Sandhu (U.S.A.), November 14, 2008, 1:31 PM.

Harpreet Singh stated: "We should not stigmatize anyone for their spiritual choices." No, but we should not distort the Guru's teachings or negate the importance of Sikhi sidaq in order to meet our own personal world view either.

4: Harbans Lal (Arlington/, U.S.A.), November 14, 2008, 2:58 PM.

I.J. Singh very timely and very ably described the big tent under a big sky. That is exactly the situation, as he so well illustrated. Only thing he left out was the role of our inept clergy and selfish politicians who are anxcious to air the divide for their unholy objectives. We need more thinkers like I.J. Singh to bring a rational approach to resolving these issues.

5: Harpreet Singh (London, England), November 14, 2008, 6:25 PM.

Ajmer Singh ji, I didn't say anything about distorting the message of Gurujis teachings to fit our own worldview. I was just cautioning against the fixation that many Sikhs seem to have with hunting down 'betrayers'. As I.J. Singh ji explains in his excellent article, Sikhi is a large tent under which many different traditions belong and can flourish. Going on a witch hunt against 'apostates' is a sure recipe for self-destruction. It always has been, in every religion. This impulse to seek out traitors and apostates is almost a default mode for some Sikhs in the modern world. It becomes the stick with which individuals are beaten for their supposed failings. It's a fuel for self-righteousness. I.J. Singh's formula is an ideal version of how we should see Sikhi, as an inclusive faith, rather than a faith whose very purpose becomes to judge and exclude individuals, rather than to express and emanate compassion and tolerance.

6: R. Sandhu (Canada), November 16, 2008, 11:52 AM.

As Dr. I.J. Singh has pointed out, a Sikh is one who claims to be one. However, along with the siege mentality also came the religious fascism with terms like 'apostate/patit' being coined to denigrate and force compliance; i.e. division into haves and have-nots in the spoils of war on the very spirit of Sikhi in recent times. A distinct class, that is neither amritdhari nor non-amritdhari, is merely 'bana/symbol'-dhari, who claim to speak for the Guru, but shirking the moral authority and the spirit of His manifesto - the Holy Granth - buried under tinsel and cloth. Unless an attempt is made to reconcile this schism and provisions made for future evolution of the Sikh religion by keeping focus on the Holy Granth and without succumbing to ease of touting peripherals as central to practice of Sikhi, there are going to be bitter divisions, especially with those who are looked down upon and shooed away, but still not bitter enough to throw the baby away with the water like the Sindhis, forcing them into opening up their own institutions. With pressures of modern society and world and conflicts overtaking every aspect of living, resisting change will not work, except for the current remnants of the so-called "puritans" who just condemn without mercy or compassion, or those who secretly find merit in keeping a code that makes for less competition in the power structures of the organised religion, invoking homilies in the garb of 'tradition', and rude/crude put-downs for those who they do not see eye to eye on the future direction of Sikhi, thus being equally if not more guilty of banishing the Guru from their lives and arbitrarily forcing multitudes from the tent of Sikhi. My hope is that the pragmatism of Guru Nanak, who lay down the blue-print for harmony in the world, way outside the narrow parameters of religious dogma and tradition, physical attributes and mere ritual practices, will shine forth, with the glory of the words of Guru Granth taking precedence over opinions and experiences making tolerance a corner-piece, without further accentuating the divide, the onus being more on those who claim to be its well-wishers and appointed representatives. There is no such thing as an 'unrecognisable' Sikh. A Sikh practicing Sikhi with or without the aid of visible symbols cannot remain hidden, for he, by virtue of his construtive deeds, also puts Sikhi on that level that is totally devoid of need for recognition. Are we going to keep disenfranchising such beings from within our ranks? Sikhi is individual sovereignity over self ... can we merely become cogs in the wheels to help disenfranchise others from this tent?

7: Parmjit Singh (Canada), November 16, 2008, 3:15 PM.

Nicely written. I never thought of kes/dastar as a mere "marker of my faith". It is inseparable from the faith. Are articles like this in response to negative reader feedback of sikhchic content? If so, the website loses credibility when it does not acknowledge that. Despite this, thank you for continuing to provide overall, an excellent site. [Editor: We welcome articles regardless of what position they take on any issue of interest to Sikhs or those interested in things Sikh, as long as they are written well, logical and rational, balanced, supported by facts or well-thought out and articulated opinions, and are not malintentioned. Almost all issues seem to attract supporters and detractors, some of them intense and passionate. We try not to be swayed by them unless they are consistent with the highest ideals of Sikhi.]

8: Rita Kaur Nijjar (Irvine, California, U.S.A.), November 19, 2008, 12:03 AM.

I.J. Singh's article did not in anyway negate the importance of the articles of the Sikh faith. On a metaphysical or "piri" level, all human beings are equal. However on a "miri" or wordly level, I.J. Singh points to the Rehat Maryada as a means of reconciliation between turbaned Sikhs and others who proclaim to be so. I feel a few of the above comments have misinterpreted the intent of the article and taken "inclusion" to mean negating the importance and value of Sikh Saroop. A Guru's Sikh is recognized by his dastaar and unshorn beard, period. This is a fact, and will always remain so - no matter how many Sehajdharis try to re-interpret Sikh history. Instead of accepting Sikhi Saroop as an INITIAL step on the path of being a Sikh, we see endless excuses and claims of victimization from people who choose not to wear a turban and cut their hair. It seems these are the individuals that make up the rules to suit their own agendas, as opposed to accepting the dastaar as an intrinsic and inseperable part of Sikh identity. Choosing to wear a turban and encouraging other Sikhs to follow the tenets of their faith does not amount to being a "witch-hunt" or subjugation, it's about standing up and affirming our spiritual heritage. Our faith community must never forget the sacrifices of Guru Gobind Singh, our Sahibzadey, the Khalsa, and countless Shaheeds who died in order to preserve our unique Sikh identity. It is imperative we pass this on to the next generation of Sikhs instead of being at the mercy of "spokesmen for the community who have abandoned the markers of their faith, and are unable or unwilling to defend the practices of the faith when they represent us to the outside world."

9: Harpreet Singh (London, England), November 21, 2008, 9:47 AM.

Rita Kaur ji: Witch hunting takes place against Sikhs who keep kesh too. The problem with hunting down traitors is that it leads to Sikhi becoming not about the metaphysical and spiritual principles of Sikhi, but a grand inquisition to see who can be excommunicated and persecuted next. It becomes a never ending process of self righteousness that depletes all energies individually and collectively. That is the vision that some people have for Sikhi. In the diaspora, such an attitude could lead to the eradication of the community as we know it, leaving us miniscule in number, intolerant and paranoid in character.

10: Rita Kaur Nijjar (Irvine, California, U.S.A.), November 22, 2008, 8:17 PM.

Harpreet, I'm a little confused at your response. Not once, in my post above, did I ever mention "hunting down traitors". The theme of "hunting down traitors" was not even vaguely related to my point, and wasn't mentioned in the original article. In addition, the eradication of the Sikh community as we know it, can only occur if Sikh identity and Sikh teachings are allowed to be inexcusably bifurcated.

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