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Of Laws & Conventions

by I.J. SINGH

 

An endless debate has recently been riding the Internet.

There is no question that today, and for the past three hundred years, male Sikhs have been known by their unshorn hair, beards and turbans.  And during the past three decades, an increasing number of Sikh women - still a very small but significant number, particularly outside India - are also opting to wear a turban.

Many Sikhs, though, have abandoned these historic articles of their faith.  They may find them inconvenient at work or socially.  Or, more likely, they have developed what they see as a rational belief system devoid of external symbols and markers.  Without becoming judgmental, I could venture that perhaps some of them may never have had the opportunity to develop a more intimate relationship with Sikhi. 

I don't really know and, more importantly, the why of this is not at all relevant to this discussion today.  What brought me to this question is how it is often played out in our society and in academia.

Sometimes it is claimed that on Vaisakhi 1699, when the formal markers of initiation into the Khalsa were instituted, there was no requirement of long hair or turbans mandated by Guru Gobind Singh. Protagonists and antagonists of this view cite, or fail to cite, authoritative writings of that time.  They aggressively push their contrary points of view, but do not unequivocally lay the matter to rest.

Then there are those who further aver that the practice of mandating unshorn hair and turbans for Sikhs is a result of the activities of the Singh Sabha only in the past century  - a movement that played a pivotal role in defining and collating the fundamentals of the Sikh Code of Conduct (Rehat Maryada). 

This document, which was originally formulated in the early 20th century, has now become the protocol that regulates Sikh life today.  Those who can't or won't abide by its requirements consider the law onerous.  Since no Guru, they contend, stated a formal code for a Sikh life, and nor can they trust an authoritative document of that time saying so, clearly then there should be no such requirement today.

Disagreements often become hot and heavy and the fur flies on both sides of the spectrum; each side cites non-existent or unknown dates and documents of dubious authenticity to prove its point.  It would be entertaining if only it were not so self-destructive for the community.

Both sides of the argument agree that in the Indian culture, irrespective of whether one was a Hindu or a Muslim, a turban was worn by a man of substance.  Even now, when almost no Hindus or Moslems wear turbans (except Osama and his cohorts from the Arab world), most men of either religion often continue to be adorned with a turban at least twice in their lives  - at their own marriage and death.

The naysayers ask: Isn't it possible then that, as many non-recognizable Sikhs and even some academicians assert, the Sikh turban and the unshorn hair reflect those cultural realities and that they were never meant to be religious requirements?

I believe that the argument is untenable; but, additionally, it ignores a fundamental of how communities, societies and nations develop their social fabric and legal framework.

Traditions and laws don't come out of thin air; they reflect the practices and values of a people. 

It is fascinating to see how unwritten and perhaps not-so-universal habitual practices loosely knit a people into communities.  And then how these practices over time become traditions - habits of the heart - that define a people.  The final step occurs when these binding traditions become enshrined into law.

Let me illustrate my position with an example from a strong, vibrant, living society. 

Let's look at the 22nd Amendment of the Constitution of the United States.  This is the amendment that restricts a person to no more than two consecutive terms as the president of the country.  How, why and when did it come about?

This country is over two hundred years old, but this amendment has a relatively short and recent history. 

The first President, George Washington, was immensely popular.  He deliberately rejected the trappings of royalty. History tells us that he was offered a third term, and he would have been easily elected to it. (Anointed would be more accurate!). But he steadfastly rebuffed the temptation. 

His successors, Adams, Jefferson, Madison, and others, saw the virtue in his action, and also refused to entertain the possibility of a third term.  Ulysses Grant might have been the first president to actively seek a third term, but his own party declined to nominate him.  Teddy Roosevelt also tried with similar results; had he won, admittedly, his would have been a non-consecutive term.

This idea of not seeking a third term was not a provision in the Constitution then, but for almost 200 years, with the few exceptions noted, no sitting president actively sought it.

In 1940, the nation was at war.  There was hesitation in changing the Commander-in-Chief in the middle of a war.  Perhaps that's why Franklin Delano Roosevelt sought and won, after his second term, a third and fourth consecutive terms. 

Perhaps the nation recognized that a long-standing habit that had become a strong tradition had now been contravened.  Soon after the death of FDR (while he still held office), the 22nd amendment limiting the office to two terms was passed by the U.S. Congress on March 21, 1947.  Its adoption as law required a long process of ratification by two-thirds of the states; the amendment became law when adopted by 36 states, four years later, only on February 27, 1951.

What was the reason for the law?

The underlying fear in a young nation seems to have been that of enabling a leader to become a dictator, even if he/she is the most benevolent, popular or wise.

What I wish to do here is to draw your attention to the process of how a convention starting with George Washington became a revered tradition for almost two centuries and then, when it seemed at risk, became mandated as law.

What does this particular amendment to the U.S. Constitution have to do with Sikh practices?

Returning now to the matter of unshorn hair and turbans for Sikhs: one can see that it may have once been simply a matter of cultural habit or convention, particularly of people of some standing in the community, and of the landed gentry. 

There is no doubt, however, that by the time of Guru Gobind Singh, this practice was more than just a simple convention; it had become an ingrained tradition for the Sikhs. 

For proof, I point to the innumerable Sikhs who accepted martyrdom rather than cut their hair.  I remind you of the time when a Sikh scalp with its unshorn hair carried a price.

A hundred years before the Singh Sabha movement, in the times of Maharaja Ranjit Singh, who ruled a large swath of North India and its surroundings with such success, Sikhs were recognized by their long, unshorn hair and turbans.  And more than fifty years before Ranjit Singh, Sikhs who fought alongside Banda Singh Bahadar are remembered for their long, unshorn hair.

The tradition continued unabated, even during the hundred years of British rule over Punjab.

The Singh Sabha therefore did not invent the tradition, as is sometimes alleged; it merely explored and recognized the historicity of the unbroken practice and defined it as a deeply and continuously held Sikh belief and tradition.

The next consistent step was a logical one: to give this tradition the legally binding stamp of authority.  And that's what the Sikh Code of Conduct (Rehat Maryada) did.  This happened after a long process akin to a national conversation lasting about twenty years.

Laws are not handed down from higher authority, except in autocracies and dictatorships.  In a free people, laws evolve from and reflect a history of shared values.  Then they become the glue that binds a people together.

This process is exactly how practices morph into traditions and then get enshrined into law. 

Once they become law, good citizens obey them.  Change follows a very long, drawn-out and arduous process that mandates introspection, a prolonged national dialogue, and a building of consensus.

And any change that results must be consistent with the fundamentals that remain constant. 

For instance, it would not be logical or sensible to construct Christianity without Jesus, or Judaism without its Ten Commandments or its other requirements.

This would be an intriguing exploration that I leave to another time.

 

September 5, 2008

Conversation about this article

1: Harpreet Singh (London, England), September 05, 2008, 5:43 PM.

You forgot to include a couple of reasons why some Sikh men choose not to keep kesh. First of all, because they come to a stage in their life in which they don't believe in the precepts of religion, and the most common factor (in my experience), which is because they find the imposition of keeping hair and turban, imposed on them by their families, to be oppressive. You can call this rebellion if you like. I actually think it's just a part of human nature in the modern world, observable through every country, culture and religion, and that is the individual human desire to find your own path in life. Too often, Sikhs blame the big bad boogey man of the outside world for the rejection of kesh. But as often as not, it is a reasoned decision, and made in reaction to the imposed pressures of family and 'community'.

2: Chintan Singh (San Jose, California, U.S.A.), September 05, 2008, 7:27 PM.

Great article describing how human psyche develops and accepts laws. However I would urge sikhchic.com to come up with an article on the history and compiling of the Rehat Maryada. I do believe that the question of whether we are ordained by the Tenth Guru to keep hair or not is going to become more and more important for coming generations. Therefore, academic research on this subject, though controversial, would still be a great effort if one of our esteemed scholars would consider taking it on.

3: H. Singh (Los Angeles, U.S.A.), September 06, 2008, 1:04 AM.

You have rightly mentioned that when tradition is at risk or is on the brink of disappearance, it is turned into law so that it is permanently incorporated in the society. So in our Sikh case, what was the risk or danger that resulted in making the practice of keeping unshorn hair and turban into code of conduct?

4: Bhupinder Singh Ghai (New Delhi, India), September 06, 2008, 4:01 AM.

A great article. The young generation today needs some answers ... if only somebody is ready to listen to their questions. I also feel that Sikhs today either give too much freedom to thier kids and then repent when they go astray. Or, they excessively put enormous pressure to follow Sikhi. They force them to learn Japji Sahib by rote, do this - do that, go to Gurdwara, etc., etc. The ideal situation would be for them to gradually apprciate the positive attributes of Sikhi, to actually fall in love with its simplicity. The classic example being in my alma mater, Guru Harkrishan Public School. When I was studying there almost a decade ago, girls used to wear skirts, boys would only wear a turban in Std 11 and 12 only. Today, kids as high as my waist are mandated to tie turbans and girls wear salwar kameez. Talk about talibanization of Sikhi. Add to this, the constant ridicule and mockery of Sikhi in the popular media, and no wonder young Sikhs do not want to be associated with Sikhi. In the West, the situation is somewhat same where kids grow up in a totally alien culture. Kids have a constant feel of being ostracized and being ridiculed. We have to think from a child's perspective or that of a young adult who questions the rationality of all this. Apart from serious historical research, we need to have a debate as to why these articles of faith are an integral part of Sikhi. Whether Sikhi and everything connected with it can live without Kesh/Turban? We know that it is impossible to think of one without the other and we also know that we have our survival at stake. This is a sincere request for all right thinking Sikhs to come together and find solutions. We need people like Dr. I.J. Singh to be leading lights and to join forces in this seva. We have made enormously huge and opulent gurdwaras. It's time now to make equally impressive Sikhs, or shall I say, good world citizens.

5: I.J. Singh (New York, U.S.A.), September 06, 2008, 9:37 AM.

Harpreet Singh's point is well taken, but I did make it briefly at the beginning of the essay - in the third paragraph. In any event, it is not the central issue here. The question that I explore here is that there is a process by which practices evolve into requirements and laws. Yes, after Ranjit Singh's rule, history tells us many Sikhs abandoned the markers of their faith, and that was a danger. I did not mention here but sometimes practices that are not necessarily desirable also become requirements of law with time. As an example, I offer the addition of the words "One Nation Under God" that was inserted only in the 1950's into the American Pledge of Allegiance. I don't think Jefferson would have approved of it. I wonder about some undesirable cultural practices that have become almost a requirement in Sikh practice, but I leave this matter for another time. What the Rehat Maryada did was to codify ongoing, unbroken Sikh traditions and practices, and clean out perhaps many of the contradictory cultural practices. As Chintan Singh says, we need to look at how the Rehat Maryada evolved. And I'll try to do so someday.

6: Tibby Singh (Vancouver, Canada), September 06, 2008, 12:26 PM.

Well written article, but again personal issues make this writer judgemental (although he says "without being judgemental"). I do agree, that with time things evolve. "Traditions and laws don't come out of thin air; they reflect the practices and values of a people." Correct. With changing times, come change in traditions. One of two things will happen in the western world. The religion will eventually split into two factions (with and without kesh) or continue as it is with a dwindling following and eventually disappear in the west. I think the former will occur, albeit in 20-30 years. Religion should be simple, and allow inner peace. Our religion is essentially a no-nonsense approach to god, but as Bhupinder Ghai states- there is a "talibanization" of sikhism. Given the selection bias of the readership of this blog, this post will likely upset some of you. That was not my intention, but we have to look at both sides of the coin. Rabb Rakha.

7: Atika (Columbus, Ohio, U.S.A.), September 07, 2008, 2:08 AM.

Religion to me equals faith and practice. Religious identities exist at a societal/group level, but also bear significance at a very personal level. For many of those who wear the 5Ks, besides being artcles of faith, they also define a way of living and of practicing what being a Sikh means. It is what gives them inner peace and I think that is their very simple approach to God. I pray that with Waheguru's grace, we continue to grow as one undivided loving community that allows the younger generation to take on an active role in understanding the true meaning and significance of Rehat Maryada.

8: Gursharn Singh Nagi (New Delhi, India), September 07, 2008, 3:57 AM.

Humanity has no rules, it is always humans who adore rules and regulations by developing religions. I feel that our Gurus never considered Sikhi as a separate religion but a collection of novel thoughts and perspectives, which makes it a culture. Keeping one's hair unshorn is not a rule in Sikh culture but it is a gift given by the Master; just as we accept hands, legs and other parts of body, we should also accept and respect our hair.

9: Ravinder Singh (Columbus, Ohio, U.S.A.), September 07, 2008, 10:27 AM.

The crux of the issue, I think, is captured in the concluding statement of I.J. Singh's piece: would it be possible to construct Sikhi without its external markers. To me, that is akin to asking if one could erase one's memory and still be the same person. Obviously not. The fact is that our external markers are embedded in our collective memory and woven into the very fabric of Sikhi. Academic debate notwithstanding. The pressing issue, which readers have raised, is where do we go from here? How do we address the very real - and daily - challenges that Sikhs (especially recognizaable Sikhs) face? Internally, how do we accomodate and include different shades under the overarching umbrella of Sikhi. Personally, I believe that individuals should be able to make a choice when it comes to kesh without feeling censured. The point about the talibization of Sikhi and the need to revisit the Rehat Maryada is very relevant here. Equally valid, though, is the need to cultivate a deeper personal intimacy with Sikhi that is lacking amongst most of us. I always offer this recommendation to many of my Sikh brothers who do not wear a turban but question me for living in the past. But I also caution them that building this relationship with the Guru and Sikhi might be dangerous: they could end up with a turban on their heads!

10: P. Sandhu (Toronto, Canada), September 07, 2008, 11:50 PM.

Although interesting, the fundmental question has not been addressed so far. I am a fully turbaned sikh. But, I never wanted to keep my my hair. It was only through guilt and fear of being ostracized from my family that I kept them unshorn. Religion is for inner peace, and I had none. I felt completely out of place at non-indian social gatherings and school, and at home I felt lonely. If I ever brought up the topic of cutting my hair, I was told "NO!". No other reason other than what would our Guru's think, what the chacha's and tayaa's would think, etc. I eventually did cut my hair, as I had no relationship with my family or my religion. I soon realized that although life was easier without kesh, I continued to have an inner void which remained unfilled. Then, I actually tried to understand Sikhism, read English translations, etc. I soon understood the simplicity of the religion, the peace. It took me 10 years, but eventually, I kept my kesh again. I did it for the Guru and not for my parents, society or anyone else. Most of the people do not understand Sikhism. Unlike in Punjab, we do not have the good fortune to learn about Sikhism slowly or through osmosis or learn about it from our contemporaries. We are just given orders. I will never force my children to keep kesh, rather will teach them about our Gurus and to be good humans. If they decide to keep kesh or not, it will truly be a personal choice that they make. I will not make it for them. I do agree with Tibby Singh, that if we do not address this crisis (it is a crisis, not only for our faith, but an identity crisis) our religion will slowly disappear in the Western world. And don't blame Canada, America, or your children. Blame yourself!

11: Sucha Singh (Richmond Hills, New York, U.S.A.), September 08, 2008, 12:58 PM.

Although I agree with the article and I agree with some of the other views, I have a different viewpoint. I have personally seen in numerous cases where the family is liberal about Sikhi; the family members first start out by cutting their hair and eventually they start out by marrying non-Sikh partners and adopting the other faith. At first, to many people it would not seem important to keep their kesh but by not keeping your kesh, one has taken the first step towards diminishing the Sikh faith from their family. For example, the Indian Cricket Team's captain, Mahender Singh Dhoni's family three generations ago were Sikhs, but what happened to them is that one member of their family decided upon cutting their hair and the result is today the entire Mahender Singh Dhoni's family are Hindus (they practice Hinduism) not Sikhs. So my view point is that today's generation seems to complain abot keeping their hair unshorn but what they have forgotten is that to be a Sikh hundred years ago was even more difficult than it is today because the Mughals had a price on each and every Sikh's head and, despite that, they all kept their unshorn hair. Bhai Taru Singh was captured by the Mughals and he refused to have his hair cut so they cut his scalp off. Another example would be when Dasmesh Pita Guru Gobind Singh Ji's sons, Sahibzadey Zorawar Singh and Fateh Singh were offered all sorts of lures to give up Sikhi and to convert to Islam they refused, and the Mughals had them bricked alive in Sirhind.

12: Tegh-Zorawar S. Nijjar (Newport Beach, California, U.S.A.), September 08, 2008, 5:48 PM.

My grandma always said to us: "Baccheo, Gursikhi vich raho-ge, hamesha khush rahoge!" At the time, I didn't realize why, but as I grew older and encountered life's experiences, I found her words couldn't have been more true. So called "modernized" Sikhs and "intellectuals" can debate the dastaar and kesh 'till the cows come home, but the truth remains: "Dastaar Farz, Dastaar Imaan, Dastaar ek Sikh di Pechaan".

13: D. J. Singh (U.S.A.), September 08, 2008, 9:00 PM.

The first Master defined Sikhism. He taught us about the One Universal Creator God. The Tenth Master ordained the Khalsa giving Sikhs their unique identity. He also empowered the Sikhs to make wise decisions. The Sahibzadas followed the direction of their father. Some Sikhs seek amendments in the Rehat Maryada to accomodate their loved ones. The Ninth Master sacrificed his life to protect another religion. Ironically, there are some today who are willing to change the face of their own religion!

14: Savraj Singh (Pennington, New Jersey, U.S.A.), September 09, 2008, 12:26 AM.

What's funny about this discussion is that here in America, the government is fully behind us to practice our faith and be who we are. As proof, the United States Department of Justice produced an amazing training video for law enforcement explaining Sikhi. No other government in the history of the world (I'm willing to bet) has ever produced such detailed video. You can watch it here: http://www.usdoj.gov/crs/video/ocg-video.htm Isn't it amazing that today we have the support of the secular gov't, something the Sikhs of the Gurus times never imagined, but now we just don't have the interest to follow the Guru's orders? And yes, I'm the Savraj Singh pictured next to the article, though I have no idea how sikhchic.com got my photo! [Editor: sikhchic.com, like the government, has its ways!]

15: Panjab Singh (Sacramento, U.S.A.), September 09, 2008, 7:35 PM.

Very appropriate and thought-provoking article by Dr Singh! In Punjab, many of the Sikh youth have already opted out of unshorn hair. It is very common in Sikh matrimonials where Sikh parents/girls advertise preference for a clean-shaven Sikh of a certain caste. This is the paradox of Sikhi growing in India after over 521 years or so. What will happen in another 50 or 100 years? In the West, where Sikhs who follow the Rehat Maryada, they consider themselves spiritually superior than those who don't follow. The divide is widening. Frequently, you also hear comments from turbaned Sikhs in the West that "I would have been much more successful if I didn't wear my turban and had unshorn hair". Such is our dilemma! The bottom line is - living abroad - how long can you keep your coming generations glued to historicity and rehat maryada of Sikhi?

16: Kanwarjeet Singh (U.S.A.), September 10, 2008, 12:09 AM.

Sikhi is not weak. We as Sikhs and human beings, sometimes are ...

17: Amardeep (U.S.A.), September 10, 2008, 11:48 AM.

I do not see any negative outcome coming. There are ever growing number of gurdwaras in the West, kirtan jathas, punjabi classes, camps, etc. My mom told me that during her childhood in a small town in Punjab, there were hardly any kirtan programs around and a gurdwara service was not one of the regular things. Regarding Kesh, I do not see any easy answer, scholarly or otherwise. All that will be at the mind's level. I guess, in spirituality/Sikhi, it is a path of introspection, sometimes failing and sometimes moving forward. As long as we have a soul, we will long for spirituality/Sikhi because we need it. One can go and try any other way out. As Guru Nanak puts it, 'If you desire to play the game of love with me, get rid of your ego, become the dust of the feet, then step onto My path'. So there will be a few blessed ones who can sarcifice their heads ... keeping kesh unshorn is not a challenge to them? For persons like me, it does not matter if I go and ring the bells in some temple or go to gurdwara for langar and I may keep on changing according to my whims and wishes.

18: Tejwant Singh (Nevada, U.S.A.), September 10, 2008, 6:44 PM.

One more great thought provoking essay. It makes one ponder and also, perhaps rightfully, nudges one to participate in debates on whether the Five Kakaars were the dogmas introduced by Guru Gobind Singh in the pragmatic way of life founded and envisioned by Guru Nanak and our other eight Gurus or the solidification of the Sikhi thought process, so that, in order to stand out with the turban, one has to learn through Gurbani how to be outstanding. One wonders how Sikh men looked like during the time of Guru Teg Bahadar and before, or better still, on the eve of Vaisakhi Day in 1699! One also wonders why Kande di Pahul was not the prerequisite for one to follow the Sikhi Path!

19: Panjab Singh (Sacramento, California, U.S.A.), September 10, 2008, 9:01 PM.

The response to Dr Singh's article has been outstanding so far! Let me propose if Dr Singh can relate to this topic with Sikhs on a gut level rather than on a scholarly level so that wider participation is ensured? Personally, I'll feel so good if Dr Singh elaborates on his thesis that Sikh rehat maryada will endure over years to come ... And what percentage of Sikhs will carry that forward (Do you have a tenative staistical number in mind?) Change is continuously happening and the pressures of assimilation into the mainstream culture are daunting. Will our children live up to this ordeal? Do you have a concrete strategy to overcome this? If yes, Dr Singh, please outline it for the Sikh community - we need to be driven by the final strategic outcome, not just an idealistic or academic proposition. Please don't take me wrong, but I am still confused how exactly we would like to make sure that Sikhi is not weak and can flourish in the future! [Editor: I have yet to see any signs that Sikhi is weak. Sikhs, yes, but Sikhi?]

20: Tejwant (U.S.A.), September 11, 2008, 11:10 AM.

It is worth noting that Guru Nanak founded our Sikhi way of life to get rid of the shackles of dogma and to have us lead a pragmatic life. Today. our honchos of Sikh religious politics, who are sitting crosslegged on their high chairs at the Takhts, seem to be involved in nothing but dogma. They ban books, ban people from speaking in the gurdwaras (which have four doors to welcome all mankind). Banning people to speak about gurmat in gurdwaras is like Saudi Arabia banning all other places of worship but the mosque. They argue about having langar on the floor rather than on tables and chairs, no matter if old people can or can not sit on the floor. They do not care about that. Still today, there's no means for the handicapped to visit Harmandar Sahib and many other gurdwaras because we are too involved in banning gay marriage in Canada. It seems like a joke, doesn't it? Sikhi was founded on Shabad Vichaar, not on personal ego trips. The biggest flaw of the compilers of the Rehat Maryada appears to be that it was created by making Sikhi one more dogmatic religion rather than a very unique way of life which is absent of any man made Truth-Subjective reality. They seem to have failed to realize that through the Maryada, they have put padlocks on the three remaining doors. Our maryada should be based on Gurmat, not on man-invented DO's and DON'Ts. Sikhi is NOT based on what I can or can not do, but what I will or will not do. Until we come to grips with that, we will be leading a manmat path rather than that of gurmat. Sikhi demands a lot more from us than just gold leafing the domes.

21: P. Sandhu (Toronto, Canada), September 11, 2008, 11:45 PM.

Stimulating discussion, but no answer. Sikhism is a great life system, and yes, Sikhi is beautiful. But it appears that our youth have lost touch with it. What they do hear at the gurudwaras are arguments about sitting on the floor, tables, banning gay marriage etc. ... what has already been been pointed out by a number of readers. But, how are we going to inspire our youth to embrace Sikhi? I doubt that step 1 is keeping kesh. We will first have to educate them, but we need educated religious leaders, not those who sermon and "nag". This younger population has questions, but no one to answer them. We all have aunts, mothers, sisters who perform paatth daily. But when asked about the meaning of the paatth, the majority will not know. Vague answers about how Sikhism is great is all you generally get. But, why is it great? Another issue is we have very few granthis who are actually educated in Sikhi. Everyone seems to know sakhis and Sikh history, especially in regards to bravery. But that is NOT Sikhi. It is history. Although very important, it is not fundamental to become a Sikh. I went to a gurdwara the other day in another city. The visting granthi (from India - apparently quite well regarded) talked for about 1.5 hours, dissecting how Sikhsim is great (with a disclaimer - 'I mean no insult to other religions but "america dey scientist" have put Sikhism as the "number one and true" religion!'). He also talked about the sacrifice of many sikhs over the years and their bravery. He did not mention anything about Sikhi. This gurdwara was packed with youth - young immigrants, mostly with shorn hair, who came to see this granthi. Within 30 minutes, almost all of them had left or were talking outside or were on cellphones. I don't blame them at all! If we fail to inspire the youth, especially those willing to be inspired, and stick to our uneducated leaders - then, God help us!

22: ASM (Aliso Viejo, California, U.S.A.), September 12, 2008, 2:34 PM.

P. Sandhu's approach to re-igniting the spirit of Sikhi among the Sikh youth seems to lackadaisical. Here is my humble solution to this issue: Let each of us start at home first, rather than worrying about what everybody else is doing. Encourage your own children to learn about their faith, present them with reading materials and share stories about great Sikh heroes like Mata Sundri, Satwant Kaur, Bidi Chand, Banda Bahadur, Baba Deep Singh, and the Sahibzadey. Secondly, do not deprive your children of the Articles of their Faith - raise them as visible Sikhs, and teach them to be PROUD of their identity, and LOVE their Guru. This will only make them stronger individuals later in life and instill in them an ability to face adversity head-on, and rise above it. Thirdly, parents need to be PRO-ACTIVE, because as P. Sandhu has correctly stated, if we put the entire duty of passing on the Sikh faith to the next generation on the gyaanis at the gurdwara - we are neglecting our duty as parents. If we need to educate ourselves about Sikhi, as parents first, then so be it. The blame and responsibility lies on ourselves, not our children or visiting gyaanis from India.

23: Panjab Singh (Sacramento, U.S.A.), September 13, 2008, 9:33 AM.

ASM raises a good point - Sikh parents must lead by example! A friend of mine shared an unfortunate example of a Sikh immigrant turbaned father from Punjab and his innocent patka wearing young child. During his very first month, the dad saw an ad for hair-cut special - the kind of 'buy one - get one free'. He took his son with him and both got their hair cut for the price of one. Dad now serves on the executive committee of a Gurdwara! Another one I heard. At the Indira Gandhi International Airport, New Delhi - a Sikh immigrant's baggage turned out to be overweight. He was asked to either pay or take out a few things from his baggage. The gentleman threw out several of his turbans that he thought he would no longer require in his new abode abroad. Sikhi is not weak but Sikhs are! [Editor: Let's be careful - these stories are usually fictional and circulated by our detractors with mischief in mind ... "Urban Myths", they're usually called. We should be careful in not becoming pawns in helping circulate them.]

24: P. Sandhu (Toronto, Canada), September 15, 2008, 10:06 PM.

I disagree with the "mainstream" approach recommended by ASM. Although humble, it won't accomplish it's goal and I feel that the approach has a "been there, done that" feel. It just isn't enough. I think what he/she has mentioned is already being done. And again, it's Sikh history he/she is recommending we teach as the first thing we do (starts off by saying - firstly). We need to teach SIKHI! I say let's start with the Mul Mantar. Lets start with the basic tenets of Guru Nanak. I am an amritdhari Sikh but I feel kesh is not at all mandatory for all. Once again, the readership of this blog has a definite selection bias, but hopefully I can convince one person to see past appearance and re-focus on substance.

25: Sukhvinder Singh (U.K.), September 16, 2008, 7:03 AM.

Thought provoking article and required in the current climate, i.e., the growing trend of secluraism, in terms of the role of religion in public space. Unlike other majority religions, Sikhism does believe or rather requires its followers to wear external articles of faith, that are an integral part of their physical apperance. Thus, when it comes to keeping religion or manifestation of religion out of public space, this is not possible for Sikhs. For me, the main difference is between manifestation and requirement of a religion. We Sikhs need to educate mainstream society that the wearing, for example, of the Turban is not a manifestation of our religion but an essential requirement, unlike the Hijab or the Cross. The case of the Sikhs and their turbans in France is being argued against by two opposing schools of thought, both arguing that the law cannot serve its purpose of not allowing religion to be manifested or recognised in public: The first is that the kesh and the turban are an integral part of Sikhism; if one removes their turban, they are still recognised as Sikhs and practing their faith in public space and the law is about banning external manifestations and not physical, i.e. kesh. Thus, the law does not or cannot serve its purpose. The second is that the turban is not a part of the Sikh religion but a traditional head wear worn by people from Punjab and has no religious significance, thus not a maifestation of religion and therfore the law is not applicable to Sikhs. The flaw with the second argument, in my opinion, is that in countries like the USA, Canada and the UK, we have argued for and got protection in domeatic Law, for the right to wear the turban as an integral part of the Sikh religion. How can one argue in France that this is not the case. Are we not compromising our fundamental principle of the turban being an integral part of Sikhi, by short term thinking, just to try and overcome the ban in France. Should we not focus on educating others on why the model of secularism based on the western concept of religion is not applicable to Sikhism, as it does not fit into their concept of what religion is?

26: Parkash Hundal (California, U.S.A.), September 24, 2008, 3:49 PM.

"If we need to educate ourselves about Sikhi, as parents first, then so be it." I could not agree more with ASM. This sentiment is also echoed in I.J. Singh's most recent column entitled, "Punjab: Battleground Anew". Dr I.J. Singh writes, "It seems to me an unassailable truism that all efforts must start with the individual. We can never teach others what we ourselves do not know." In addition, it is imperative to understand, as Sikhs, that our "appearance" is an intrinsic and inseperable part of our "substance". Learning how "appearance" and "substance" in Sikhism are inseperable requires time and effort rather than empty and recycled rhetoric regarding the separation of the two.

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