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Spectator Sport

by I.J. SINGH

 

As a moderately devoted fan, each season I spend many a fruitless hour in front of the TV watching American Football.  It is not a game I play, or one I understand all that well.  I have been viewing it for better than four decades, but have made no attempt to learn its intricacies.  Even the fundamentals remain a mystery to me.

Then, why do I watch it so incessantly?

The television culture promotes spectator sports.  Get your bag of popcorn or potato chips, a six-pack of beer or soda and, with the remote-control in hand, plop yourself in a comfortable chair in front of the tube, and let your fingers do the walking.

It doesn't have to be an addiction to football. Other pastimes that I can pursue with a modicum of skill, such as tennis or squash, would do just as well.  I can then enjoy any thing or any activity  -  from the debacle in Iraq to "American Idol" -  without moving a major muscle or possessing any measurable skill.  Wouldn't it be reasonable then, to label life largely "a spectator sport?"

What higher duty defines a citizen than to participate in the political electoral process of his or her neighborhood, city, state and country?  But, news reports tell us, citizen participation continues to dwindle, while the numbers of so-called experts on television increase exponentially. 

In a nation of believers, what clearer calling can there be than to participate in matters of one's faith?  But, statistics tell us, church attendance keeps falling, while those who profess a belief in their religion are on the rise. 

So, our religious and civic lives may be on an irreversible path of becoming not much more than spectator sports.

I am embarrassed to admit that my "aha" moment, that life was being inexorably reduced to a spectator sport, happened not because of some talking heads on television, but while sitting in a gurdwara listening to a pretty good sermon.

I can see how the administrative hierarchy of religions evolved and that its purpose is to assist the followers in their voyage of self-discovery. But hasn't the existence and role of "professionals" in religions also reduced the flocks to being mere passive followers - nay, spectators, of their own faith?

Let me draw my evidence largely from my own creed  -  Sikhi  -  though I believe that most of the older, established religions are not much different.

Most people visit their favorite places of worship, sit through the sermon and liturgy, pay the requisite donation, and come home feeling smug that, once again, they have been absolved of their sins.  The visit next week will wash away whatever new grime they accumulate over the interim.

When Christian friends of mine argue that the return of the Latin Mass would be good, I wonder what they mean, because they understand not a word of Latin.  When they insist that only an ordained priest can consecrate the bread or say the Mass, I wonder if it further diminishes the ordinary follower.

In these matters, Sikhs are no different.  But it was not always thus.

Not too long ago, a Sikh religious service at the home of someone I know, was put on hold for several hours because the granthi had been inordinately delayed, and a pastoral alternative was not easily available.  I suggested that we could function very well without one, and that there was nothing that a lay person could not do.  But people looked at me as if I had committed blasphemy, or a grave social faux pas.

I remember that not so many years ago, in small community gurdwaras, particularly outside India, the entire diwan was conducted by lay people; there were no professional granthis.  Now, I see that speakers and raagis (liturgical singers) at gurdwaras are, more often than not, professionals.  They do their job and the congregation simply sits through another day of services. 

I wonder if many in the audience (I hesitate to label them a congregation) remember a hymn that was sung, or the theme of the sermon!  Sometimes, I am tempted to poll the outgoing crowd at the end of the service and ask them exactly that question.  But my friends wisely dissuade me from such foolishness. 

Also, I wonder how I would answer, if the question were asked of me.  The gurdwara thus becomes the domain of the granthi and no longer a place of the people.

Sikhism tells me that the gurdwara comes into existence when Sikhs of the Guru collect to have a conversation with Him.  It is, and remains, an inner dialogue of the mind and heart, but one that surely changes the Sikh's persona.  Guru Granth provides the treasure trove and the direction, while the kirtan (liturgical music) and kathaa (discourse) provide the technology. 

But I look around in a modern gurdwara and many in the congregation sit silently.  Often, they may not understand what is being sung or said; perhaps they do not join in the words, for they know not what they are or what they mean.  Predictably then, the mind wanders elsewhere.

How then can there be dialogue and engagement with the Guru? 

The only aspect of the Sikh religious service that has not yet gone the way of a spectator sport is the community meal (langar) served at the end of it, which is still largely prepared by volunteers.  But these people are few  -  far less than the total number of attendees  -  and in many affluent gurdwaras, I see a growing trend towards catered meals.

In the 1960s, there was great turmoil in the Roman Catholic Church.  Prior to that period, the Mass was always in Latin.  Clearly then, for the average believer, there was more magic and mystery than understanding, to the Roman Catholic rites.  The result was the emergence of the Mass in the vernacular.  That was the doing of Pope John XXIII.

Now, it is the time of Benedict XVI, and he prefers the majesty of Latin. 

Are we Sikhs going to wage similar battles, between the immigrant-Punjabi Sikh who viscerally rejects the use of any language but Punjabi in the gurdwara, and those who have grown up outside Punjab or are from varied ethnic backgrounds?  This might seem shocking, but it is true.  I have been at the receiving end of such edicts at many gurdwaras in North America: they brusquely commanded that only Punjabi be spoken within the premises during services.

Come to think of it, ordinary Sikhs in the modern gurdwara have very little left to do.  Most Sikhs never learn the names of the Gurus in sequence, nor do they know how to recite the basics of our liturgy and service. 

The reason is simple:  every meaningful activity is performed by the clergy and the average Sikh just sits as a silent spectator, never a participant.  And all this is happening in a faith which has no formal requirements, or need of an ordained clergy  - indeed, a religion of lay people.

A building does not a gurdwara make; it is people who transform the building into a gurdwara.

Since any religion is, in the final analysis, a way of life, it is self-evident that it has to be a "Do-It-Yourself" model of activity. The onus, thus, is on the follower.  Whence all the ministers, priests, rabbis, mullahs, granthis and pandits  -  shamans all?

Though born a Hindu, Guru Nanak was equally tolerant of Hinduism and Islam, and just as equally dismissive of the foibles of both.  

A widely-told parable from his life speaks of a time when Nanak was challenged by a Muslim qazi to prove his open-mindedness by participating in prayer at the local mosque.  Nanak agreed, but at the stipulated time during prayer, declined to go through the prescribed sequence of motions, in concert with the local satrap and the qazi. 

When asked to explain, Nanak's response blew them away.  He reminded them that, while they did go through the rituals, their minds were not on God  -  one was rehashing a business deal for the purchase of some Arabian horses, the other was preoccupied with the fate of a newborn calf at his farm, worrying whether it had wandered off near an unguarded well.  

To them, like to many, religion had become a ritual and a spectator sport.

Watching someone else run a marathon is not going to endow anyone with the skill or the fortitude to complete the event.

How, then, is ordinary human clay to become a Sikh in our modern gurdwaras?

Now, for a bit of tautology:  Religions define a way of life.  When we reduce religion to a spectator sport, what then does life become? 

Conversation about this article

1: Jagdeep Singh (London, England), August 07, 2007, 12:12 PM.

Guru Nanak's life shows that he wanted to stress and warn of how the rituals of religion can become superficial and meaningless without true, internal, spiritual substance and compassion. In Sikhi, I see all around me, the same kind of thing today. We are slowly heading in the direction of a ritualistic and rule-bound religion, and the same emptiness increasingly abides in those Sikhs who focus only on the external and neglect the spiritual inner life. It can lead to incredible levels of hypocrisy and self-righteousness. Some people even interpret the saakhis about Guru Nanak demonstrating this in the context of Hinduism or Islam, as nothing but condemnations of those religions, rather than understanding that he was warning us about the possible pitfalls in Sikhi too.

2: Mohkam Singh (Paris, France), August 07, 2007, 12:15 PM.

All religions, including Sikhi, are at their best when they are free of their institutional trappings. Thus, while it is important for us to build better and bigger gurdwaras, we end up pushing back the sangat somewhat into the "spectator stands". Your article is timely and wise ... our community leaders need to take heed and adjust the gurdwara service accordingly, to ensure full participation by one and all.

3: Ravinder Singh (U.S.A.), August 07, 2007, 12:23 PM.

Great article!

4: Chintan Singh (San Jose, California, U.S.A.), August 07, 2007, 4:29 PM.

This article does raise a question for me: I have read and heard how difficult or even impossible it is to control one's mind and thoughts. I try to pay attention to what is being said by the granthi or the speaker at the Gurdwara, but the mind often wanders away, especially nowadays when we try to have our sixteen-month-old son sit with us for even 15 minutes or so. But, given his age, he wants to tear around the place instead ... it is simply not possible to pay much attention to the service. Similarly, at home, when I try to do nitnem, even though the little one is often not around, the mind still wanders away. So, does it mean that one should not do nitnem until one can get control of one's thoughts, or should one still continue with simran/paath and hope that, one day, the spark will be lit and we'll indeed be able to concentrate. Would love to see some thoughts from other readers on this.

5: D.J Singh (U.S.A.), August 07, 2007, 7:45 PM.

Why do people assume that making a donation in their favorite place of worship will absolve them of their sins? How are they sure that their donation is reaching God? Maybe it is intercepted by the management committees or trustees, etc. [These donations are important - for the upkeep of our institutions and our community projects. But they don't buy a free ticket to Nirvana!] And, we bow before the written word and believe that our prayers will be answered just by doing so. What we should realize is that reading the Word, understanding and respecting its message, and then taking guidance from it, is what will enlighten the path towards our goals.

6: Savneet (New York, U.S.A.), August 07, 2007, 8:36 PM.

Great article ... something for everyone to think about.

7: Manvinder Singh (Melbourne, Australia), August 07, 2007, 9:57 PM.

A good article with insight into the mind of a person who wants to get involved so as to have a direct link to the Guru, through the sangat. Sure, the issue of English usage is very important to non-Punjabi speaking Sikhs, and to second- and third-generation memners as well. Maybe, we cam list all the reasons for retaining Punjabi, and compare them with all the reasons for resorting to English. The result of this exercise may surprise us ... and even provide the solution! It's worth a try! Keep up the good work. You have initiated a good dialogue. Chardi Kalaa!

8: Tejwant (U.S.A.), August 08, 2007, 10:18 AM.

I want to thank I.J. Singh for taking away the remote from us, the couch-potatoes lounging on our Lazy Boys, hopelessly trying to Tivo the world sprinting by. Now it is up to us to unhinge ourselves from our recliners.

9: D. Pal Singh Kahlon (New York, U.S.A.), August 08, 2007, 5:29 PM.

This article is like a breath of fresh air ... in the Sikh socio-religious environment where most young, innovative ideas are suppressed under the excuse of "maryada". I think it's high time that a clear distinction be made between Shabad Guru and Maryada. Whereas the latter can vary from place to place, the Shabad is eternal, constant. Most of the more avowedly devout Sikhs purposely tend to blur the distinction. Similarly in Islam, there is the Quran and Hadith. While distinguishing the two concepts in Sikhi, let me hasten to add that it is not my intention to ignore/eliminate Maryada. The more difficult question to which there is no easy answer is whether baptism into the Khalsa with "khande di pahul" (which, in my humble opinion, is also part of the Maryada) should follow or precede initiation into the Shabad Guru ... which can start from a young age. Some other points of relevance from the article: 1) of course, all of us Sikhs should learn to be part time granthis/raagis/pracharaks, so that we can actively participate in all ceremonies in the gurdwara. 2) Although I am conversant with Panjabi and can do akhand paath, it is important in my opinion that the service should be conducted at least partially in English (in Britain and North America) or whatever the local language is ... especially in the Sikh diaspora. In this respect, I humbly submit, we need to interpret the the Maryada as permitting this, or changing it so that it does do so. Restricting the Shabad Guru to Panjabi alone somehow reduces the universality of Sikh values and spiritual teachings. Indeed, the Guru Granth is already written in a variety of different languages & dialects ... with only the script being Gurmukhi. We should induct the younger generations born abroad to run various administrative functions of the gurdwara ... so that each gurdwara should have 30-50% of its membership which is younger than 30 years of age. Lastly, the running of gurdwaras has become a "contact sport" and not merely a spectator sport, for management committees both in India & abroad, where the scent of power and money threatens to hide or obliterate the message of the Guru in many gurdwaras.

10: Jessi Kaur (California, U.S.A.), August 09, 2007, 2:03 AM.

When I got married, I did not want impersonal kirtan done by raagis - no matter how good they were. I asked my close friends, some of whom were excellent singers, to practice the Anand Karaj routine. At first, a little reluctant, they rose to the challenge. We all got together and composed and practiced appropriate shabads. During the actual ceremony, I was softly humming along with them! My brother did the Ardas, and a friend read the lavan from Guru Granth Sahib. It was such a beautiful ceremony. Since then the IIGS Kirtan group has performed the Anand Karaj ceremony of several members of the organization. IJ, you have put it so beautifully, we need to be real players, not mere spectators; otherwise life and Sikhi will pass us by...

11: Khushwant Singh (Chandigarh, Punjab, India), August 09, 2007, 4:34 AM.

I.J. Singh is spot on. I like the way he has used sport as a metaphor to highlight the decadence that has set amongst the Sikh "clergy". Such articles help diminish the negative impact created by overzealous religious bigots.

12: Tejwant (U.S.A.), August 09, 2007, 12:21 PM.

I like it when I come to the end of reading any article in this forum: I am reminded in bold letters, "Conversation about this article". This title gives a whole new dimension to the Punctuation word - "Rahao", that we come across in almost every passage of Gurbani. Isn't this what Sikhi is all about?

13: Prabhu Singh Khalsa (Española, New Mexico, U.S.A.), August 10, 2007, 2:01 PM.

This is an excellent article. I too have mentioned to people that we have turned into a 'religion.' We started as a Dharma, a righteous way of living, and now dogma has begun to creep in. At my hometown Gurdwara, we have a 'head' Granthi, who is not paid but, through her seva, she takes care of many things at the Gurdwara and teaches many people to do what she does. I myself have performed all the duties that a Granthi does, because sometimes I may be the only one able to do it. We have no paid positions in our Gurdwara, and everything is done by the seva of the sangat. Chintan Singh Ji: My suggestion to you would be that you first take a look at your diet. If you have a lot of sugars or caffeine or stimulants, that makes it very difficult to concentrate. Next, I would recommend learning yogic pranayams (breath control). The mind follows the breath. One simple and really effective pranayam is long, deep breathing. Practice it before meditation and see how it affects your consciousness and your concentration. Concentration also increases with practice, so stay firm in your practice.

14: Harbans Lal (Arlington, Texas, U.S.A.), August 10, 2007, 3:17 PM.

I.J. Singh always writes thought-provoking essays on topics that closely touch the hearts of concerned Sikhs. Our mega congregations are indeed beginning to look like spectator arenas. Let me add another component here. A growing tendency to build mega gurdwaras is inadvertently encouraging sport-arena culture amongst the congregations. It is worth noting that, at the time of our Gurus, the gurdwaras were local and closely tied to each community; they were essentially neighborhood gurdwaras, small in size but numerous in numbers. Let's take the city of Amritsar as an example. There were 38 or so gurdwaras in Amritsar at the time of Guru Arjan. Sikhs attended neighborhood congregations routinely and went to see the Guru only on special occasions. Every attendee was a full participant in his or her neighborhood congregation every day. Each one took part in the singing of gurbani, deliberations on the Guru's teachings, and naam-simran. Furthermore, it amuses me to see how our gurdwara managements are busy building and using sport facilities for our youth right on the gurdwara grounds! There are teams that play kabbaddi, volleyball, basketball, etc. At many places, there are adult volunteers to help youngsters organize league and tournaments to encourage participation and fun. This is similar to trends seen in churches and synagogues. But there is a major difference: ours often conflicts with the time of the congregation and takes the youth away from the religious service; theirs is to attract youth to the sanctuary. Their youth attending the religious services are rewarded with sport programs on the days or times when religious services and discussion groups are not being held. While Christians Jews, Bahais, Budhhists and others do everything to bring their youth in, we seem to be encouraging ours to go out and play; and they readily oblige us. Possibly, it's because to them, sitting in the religious sanctuary is boring: the language employed to teach or practice the message is alien to them. They welcome any opportunity to leave, if they can avoid anger of their elders seated in the sanctuary. On the contrary, there were occasions, as my wife Amrita told me, when the youth did return to the gurdwara sanctuary and listened to the speaker: it was only when I or some one else began to speak in English. Some times, I am asked by the management to speak in English. When I do, the youth return and pay attention. This is exactly the point that I.J. made in his column. I hope those of influence will read his piece and take it to heart.

15: Tejwant (U.S.A.), August 11, 2007, 12:39 AM.

It is interesting to notice that we have Gurbani reciting, whereas the Christians have Bible studying. They also have Bible studies in individuals' homes. People meet at someone's house on an arranged day and study the specific verses from the Bible and discuss about it. Usually no meal is served because that's not the objective. Just like us. We have Sukhmani reciting/reading/singing in which we wait for our turn, sometimes nervously, with sweaty palms, in anticipation so that the Ashtpadi allotted to us comes out with the perfect enunciation. After it is all over, we share our pot luck goodies, the favorite dishes that have specially been prepared for the occasion, and check out the latest fashion trends, and network. It is like a kitty party. For both sexes.

16: Dya Singh (Australia), August 11, 2007, 10:01 AM.

As the years roll on, I am gaining greater satisfaction and fulfilment in doing kirtan in non-gurdwara venues. More often than not in some gurdwaras, the sangat doesn't turn up on time. People seem to treat even the listening of kirtan as a ritual - forget singing along with us. Sangat members are often chatting and socializing as kirtan is going on. Some are still coming in as we are finishing kirtan. They just want to be in time for langar. I.J., thanks for a great article on a very relevant issue.

17: D. J. Singh (U.S.A.), August 11, 2007, 2:21 PM.

Prayer, kirtan, sermons, ardaas, langar ... are all part of Sikhi. You may wish to nourish your body or your soul. The palate easily understands the taste of food and enjoys the langar. If we do not know Gurmukhi, it is difficult to understand the prayer, kirtan or sermons. Then how are you expected to enjoy the Word, respect its message and follow its direction to enlighten your soul. Kirtan has music and the message. Most appreciate the good music but fail to get the message. It is of utmost importance to learn and pass on your script and language. Translation of scripture is good for reaching a wide audience. But the essence of the teaching may be lost. Language is the heart of a race, its religion, culture and customs. History teaches us that with destruction of the language, the culture is lost.

18: Brijinder Kaur Khurana (Delhi, India), August 13, 2007, 5:01 AM.

Wow! Its really a wonderful article by Dr I.J. Singh. He has tried to open a new door to all the persons who want to do something for their religion but are hesitant because of their lack of confidence. While sitting in the Gurdwara, they think whatever the sevadars are doing is correct as per the maryada, whereas they forget that they are also the creation of Waheguru and have been sent on this planet to do their respective karma. It's true that our Guru doesn't require any kind of valuables, cash, gold etc. It's our feeling that we want our Gurdwara to be the best. We try to make the best Rumalas, for example, but this doesn't end our duty. Our duty to serve continues as long as there are the needy amongst us who require help. Usually, the gurdwaras are taken over by the appointed staff and they dictate their terms to the sangat to do this and that because its our mistake that we make them feel as if we are the visitors/spectators and the gurdwara belongs to them. This article has really encouraged every person to go ahead in performing something for the community as per their worth, not in terms of money but in terms of seva.

19: Harmala Kaur Uberai (Los Angeles, California, U.S.A.), August 13, 2007, 7:10 PM.

Very eloquently written and apt article. But it is my belief that we can make our sangat more interested in the entire gurdwara process by somehow raising their consciousness and arousing their curiosity about this amazing vehicle that is Guru Granth Sahib. There seems to be an abjsct apathy in us as a community, and until we can get the youth of today interested in Gurbani, a time may come very soon that the gurdwaras ... like the churches and mandirs of today ... may not even have enough attendance. And yes, I agree that we definitely seem to be getting more and more steeped in the ritualistic aspect of worship, exactly what we are supposed to steer away from.

20: Devinder Pal Singh (New Delhi, India), August 14, 2007, 7:54 AM.

I started reading this article out of curiosity: I feel that the author has done a wonderful job. I do agree that the current trend in many gurdwaras is not so inviting and encouraging for the young generation. Often, a few people forming part of the core management group decide and carry out their dictat. This often results in a reduced participation by some valuable members of the community. I believe, unless the community as a whole learns to participate, nothing much would be achieved. This is important and I feel that all respected Sikh institutions, instead of holding kirtan darbars, etc., should actually plan innovatively to enable a broader and wider particpation of individuals to strengthen Sikhi and allow the the community to traverse a broad road. We should not let the principle of the universal well-being of the Sikh community be left as mere words in our prayers: instead, we should see that the coming generations understand this, respect it and work towards the common good of all humanity.

21: Iqbal Singh (U.S.A.), August 21, 2007, 1:12 PM.

As always, I.J. Singh has written an interesting and thought provoking article. Religion, especially Sikhism, is not a "sport" (spectator or participatory) but a Faith. A Faith is a combination of belief, love, dedication, seva and, most important of all, actual practice ... i.e., living the teachings of Sikhi. Maryada is faith-based practice or guidelines - something which the Guru would approve or disapprove. If taken too far or convoluted, they can turn into "rituals". Guru Nanak and Guru Sahiban disapproved rituals (e.g. Hindu practice of offering water to the rising sun, Muslim practice of praying only facing Mecca, etc.) and gave the message of tolerance, forgiveness, acceptance and inclusiveness. Persons of any faith, caste, creed and ideology can join in Sikh prayers. Tradition and practices change over time, imperceptibly but inexorably. Sikhism is of optimum use to us when experienced personally and selflessly - devoid of rituals, pride (haumain) and self-righteousness. There is nothing wrong with large sized "sangat" functions. Would anyone put a limit on how many Sikhs can or should attend a historic Gurdwara - say Harmandar Sahib or Bangla Sahib or any local Gurdwara, on a given day? The size of a congregation is an indicator of shardaa(dedication). What should be guarded against is ritualism and pointless showmanship.

22: Palwinder Singh (Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada), August 23, 2007, 5:08 PM.

I think these thoughts are going through a lot of young Sikhs who want other young Sikhs to understand Gurbani ... I think every Gurdwara needs youth involvement to enable it to be more youth friendly ... i.e., a library, gym, etc. Another idea is to have large projection screens with "SikhiToTheMax" to display gurbani translations. This not only helps youth but the older generation too. It has already proved a great success in many gurdwaras the world over, including where it was initiated: Crossroads Gurdwara, Coventry, U.K. (If there is any Gurdwara that wants to use this software, you can contact SevaToTheMax.com).

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