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Defending Our Gurdwaras

by PARMINDER SINGH

 

 

Like many Sikhs across the world, I too was moved by what we saw in the news from Britain these last couple of days.

Hundreds of Sikh-Britons standing guard outside gurdwaras, daring rioters and looters to pick a fight. In the context of the  government failing to protect its citizens amid a social unrest which certainly did not have any method to its madness, here were a group of citizens ardently standing up for something real.

Rightfully so, this story has caught serious momentum. The national and the international media have covered it and Sikhs
everywhere have posted photos and stories on their Facebook pages.

Many of us in the far-flung diaspora have been looking for ways to watch the streaming coverage online. During all of this, Britain's brave Sikhs even became a trending topic on Twitter!

This was a big moment - something about this story viscerally hit us.

But why?

Perhaps we were looking for a feel-good story in the midst of a serious social problem reeking with chaos and anarchy. Maybe it was just cool seeing Sikhs displaying the chardi kalaa spirit on live news.

This is all true, but I think the root cause was deeper than this.

Interestingly, the photos on Sky News reminded me of Baba Deep Singh defending the sanctity of Harmandar Sahib. We experienced a deep, emotional connection to our history of sacrifice and struggle. Gurdwaras have been threatened before, and each time, we have actively defended our ground. This was not our first rodeo.

So then we might ask, why did Baba Deep Singh act with such vigor when he heard of the threat against Harmandar Sahib? What motivated him to act?

Well, the Sikh gurdwara is a sacred piece of real estate for us - it is where the Guru’s Saroop resides, it is where our martial and spiritual sides meet. Like the Punj Kakkaars, the Gurdwara too is a physical representation of our faith. Our Sikhi has sustained gloriously through almost six centuries, through thick and thin, because these physical symbols set us apart and give us meaning - they are gifts from the Guru and we must protect them.

It doesn’t matter who you are and how many people you’re bringing with you, you’re not going to mess with that.

Taking a step back, then, I find it worthwhile to raise an even tougher, perhaps controversial, question. In today’s world, what exactly are we defending?

Where do gurdwaras fit into Sikhi today and how can we better defend them? And, at the same time, engage with them?

It might be helpful if I provide a little context to my question.

I grew up in the United States. As kids, my little brother and I would go to gurdwara weekly. We had a full schedule of Punjabi classes, kirtan instruction and sports at our gurdwara. This was great - the connection to our local gurdwara was live and active.

However, then I went away to college. After school, I worked in a couple different cities and now I go to graduate school in another. Like many in my generation, I have been moving around every couple of years chasing after different opportunities. We’re an ambitious generation, right - perpetually on the move.

In each city I have lived in, though, it has been hard to plug into the local gurdwara and really engage. So, instead, I developed my Sikhi and made sangat through conferences and retreats. And as I talk to more of my peers about this issue, I kind of feel like we all did. And if we didn’t, we just drifted away.

Interestingly, then, the gurdwara went from being the central place where we engaged with Sikhi to something on the periphery.

There are a couple plausible reasons why this happens.

We’re young and idealistic, so we’re turned off by the politics that inevitably come up at gurdwaras. We’re also, like I said above, perpetually on the move - so it’s practically difficult to really set roots down and build a community.

But these, kind of, sound like excuses. Let’s pause and look at history again.

After the Sikh Raj, we had a really tough time maintaining our Sikhi. We lost political power and, ultimately, our gurdwaras, too. In this context, the Singh Sabha movement emerged. Among other causes, this movement was focused on taking back our gurdwaras. Think about the thorny gurdwara politics Singh Sabha leaders had to face!

Nevertheless, these leaders knew that taking back the gurdwaras would give them an organization - a network - upon which to build a movement.

So let’s roll this forward to today. We are defending our gurdwaras from rioters and looters, but we also need to defend our gurdwaras from being ignored by our very own, from becoming relics of the past. As young people especially, we need to engage our gurdwaras with bright and fresh ideas.

For instance, the potential power of organizing our gurdwaras into a broader network - under one banner - is tremendous. There are so many gurdwaras out there doing wonderful things in their communities - we need them to share their successes and challenges and let us know how we can help their cause, even replicate their success. We need a forum of communication between our gurdwaras. We need a single curriculum for Punjabi school so we don’t reinvent the wheel every time a new gurdwara is set up.

The leading Sikh civil rights organizations - SALDEF, The Sikh Coalition, United Sikhs, and others – need to unlock the fundraising power in gurdwaras so they can lead change in other areas.

More broadly, then, what we really need is a gurdwara strategy.

Now this note is not meant to provide any prescriptions - far from it, actually.  I am not smart enough to even begin such an endeavor. Instead, it is meant only to provoke dialogue and debate.

The Sikh-British sprung to action this week and made us across the world feel a little prouder to be called Sikh.

Now let’s do our part and defend our gurdwaras too.

 

[Parminder Singh is a student at Harvard Business School and a graduate of Yale College. Prior to attending business school, he worked in private equity and investment banking. ]

August 11, 2011

Conversation about this article

1: Malkiat Kaur (Oregon, U.S.A.), August 11, 2011, 8:29 AM.

It is heartening to see our young step up to the plate, as we have so vividly witnessed in the news reportage in the last few days. Now that the dust has settled, I hope we will also give some serious thought to what Parminder Singh ji has so clearly laid out for us ... that we have it in us! All we need to do is put our shoulders to the task.

2: Jaswant (Toronto, Ontario, Canada), August 11, 2011, 9:21 AM.

The enemy within needs as much attention as the one clamoring outside the gates. We need all Sikhs to get involved in our gurdwaras, not run away from them just because things go wrong. But it is also encouraging to see the likes of Parminder (Harvard, Yale!) getting engaged. It portends well.

3: I.J. Singh (New York, U.S.A.), August 11, 2011, 9:32 AM.

Wonderful. As I like to say: my generation's day in the sun is almost done, and the baton must pass to the young. I am glad to see it happening. Our gurdwaras, too, will be dragged, kicking and screaming, into the 21st century. Great ... keep moving.

4: I. Singh (Chelmsford, MA, U.S.A.), August 11, 2011, 1:46 PM.

Great article, Parminder. Your mention of the Singh Sabha movement motivated me to comment. It must be noted that the idea of "unifying or freeing our gurdwaras" came up only after approximately 40 years of grass-roots education, communication, buildup of a Sikh media presence and nurturing of Sikh-owned businesses by the Singh Sabhias everywhere. It may make sense to focus on strong Sikh education and building of appropriate and independent Sikh media outlets and networks whilst we work on rejuvenating our gurdwaras here in the diaspora. Just a thought. The challenge is: how?

5: Japnam Kaur (Coventry, United Kingdom), August 11, 2011, 1:56 PM.

I read Parminder's piece as a clarion call to our professional youth to get involved in their respective/ local gurdwaras. A caveat: if you are serious about doing any good, do not get involved in running the gurdwaras, through committees or whatever. Make the existing managements comfortable by assuring them, through word and deed, that you have no intention to, and will never get interested in running for or holding a position on the management committee. Simple seva is the need of the hour ... doesn't matter which area, which task you take on, or are assigned. Apply your skills - which you have acquired through your education or work training, your personal interests, your passions and hobbies, to the tasks you seek out. Leave the place better than you found it! The rest will fall into place.

6: Ari Singh (Sofia, Bulgaria), August 11, 2011, 4:40 PM.

I think we should form an International Gurudwara Assocaition (IGA), with all the gurdwaras becoming associate members or full members of the IGA. Then we can have one universal paper circulating physically and through the internet, covering main topics. It can be subscription free membership, supported by donations. To make it simpler, these gurdwaras can be those outside India but with a link to Amritsar.

7: N.. Singh (Canada), August 11, 2011, 11:24 PM.

Japnam Kaur ji: I wholeheartedly and passionately disagree with you! One only has to look at the pictures of the 1984 victims to understand that simple seva is not enough. There are enough Sikhs around who do, have done, and continue to do simple seva and yet we are still floundering. What is needed is a consorted effort to organize ourselves along political and social lines so that we can get the leadership that we need, and make our presence felt in all the countries that we reside. Gurdwaras have always been and will continue to be of great significance to the Sikhs and not purely for 'religious' observances. Take a look at the riot situation in London over the last few days. Whereas other community groups, including the Turks and Kurds, came out in force to protect their shops and businesses, the Sikhs came out to protect their Gurdwaras. The reason we are all so disconnected is because these gurdwaras have been hijacked by anti-Sikhs elements and self=serving individuals who realize the power and wealth that lies within them. It is critical that young people get involved and that we reclaim our gurdwaras so that this power and wealth can be used for its rightful purpose ... including supporting the continuing victims of 1984. Not to be involved is a dereliction of duty and I urge all young people to step forward to claim what is rightfully yours so that we can all move away from the medieval mentality of old men from India who have become an embarrassment as well as a bane around our necks ... they should all be urged to retire from the gurdwaras and spend their free time with the grand-kids.

8: Vikrant Singh (Victoria, British Columbia, Canada), August 12, 2011, 12:54 AM.

It was really inspiring to see news articles with headings such as 'Sikhs in England show the way', etc., etc. Spurred me to go to the gurdwara today for the first time in a long time and pray for Sikhs worldwide. Very proud of the Southall Sikhs!

9: Harinder (Uttar Pradesh, India), August 12, 2011, 8:48 AM.

Good beginning. Do it in Afghanistan and Pakistan too. Where some of our most historical gurdwaras lie.

10: Japneet Kaur (Maryland, U.S.A.), August 13, 2011, 11:45 AM.

I am touched about the great things my cousin, Parminder Singh, has said about our Sikhi and how we should defend our gurdwaras. People around the world are spreading Sikhi and showing our Chardi Kalaa spirit and we should do that more. I am going to start a day where once a month children will be doing seva instead of the adults and bhai sahibs, children will do kirtan and chor sahib, as well as langar seva, ardaas and parshad seva. Sikhi is the most important thing in our lives and everyone should know.

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