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The Man For All Seasons

by I.J. SINGH

 

 

The Sikhs have some remarkably different and contradictory ways of looking at their Gurus.

Their religion says that God is free from the cycle of human birth, hence is never born nor dies. We also believe that God speaks to us through the Gurus and their teaching. What then of the divinity of the Gurus from Nanak to Gobind Singh? I

If Jesus was the son of God, how about Guru Nanak or Guru Gobind Singh? For that matter, how about you and I? When Guru Arjan and Guru Tegh Bahadar were martyred, did they feel the pain? Did Guru Gobind Singh suffer the loneliness of war and desertion, and the anguish of every parent when he lost his sons in battle?

These and other questions were brought home to me a few years ago. I had been asked to formulate a series of questions based on a book on Guru Gobind Singh for a discussion group. One general question asked: "What kind of a man was he?"

Some Sikhs who had a preview of the questionnaire took offence. Guru Gobind Singh, they insisted, should not be referred to as a man for he was divine. My words were blasphemy to them. I hid behind a verse of Bhai Nandlal, a poet who knew and traveled with Guru Gobind Singh and referred affectionately and reverently to the Guru as "A Man - nonpareil."

We recognize at a certain level of awareness that men like Jesus, Nanak, Gobind Singh were special - beyond human understanding - so much so that we unnecessarily free them of all human experiences, particularly those that are universally recognized as painful or noxious. The epitome of such reasoning is seen in Christianity, where in order to emphasize the uniqueness of Jesus, theologians have recast his birth and death in terms which deny him his humanity. To be virgin-born is not human, nor is it to be raised from the dead.

The claim of virgin birth is not unique to Christianity; it is found much earlier in Egyptian mythology and in the life of Buddha as well. Similar reasoning is encountered when Christ is viewed as the only son of God, begotten not made like you or I. If God does not assume human forms, such claims cannot be taken literally. It seems to me that as sons or daughters of God, you and I are no less; the difference between Jesus and us may lie in the inadequacy of our lives and surely it is a quantum difference.

In Guru Gobind Singh's words, God said to him: "I ordain you as my son. Go forth . . .". Such words in Christianity and in Sikhism need to be interpreted with some sensitivity and intelligence, not transliterated.

In very blunt language, Gobind Singh also directed his followers not to worship him as God.

Such claims as we make on behalf of our prophets and seers are merely indicative of our own very human inadequacies and insecurities. These claims are unnecessary, and to dismiss them would not diminish any great men of God. The uniqueness of Christ, Buddha, Nanak or Gobind Singh lies in how they lived and what they taught, not in how or where they were born or what happened to them after they died.  

If at martyrdom Guru Arjan and Tegh Bahadar felt no pain, then they did not suffer. If they did not suffer as we lesser mortals do, what can they tell us about human suffering? How can they show us the way? Christ was not without suffering when he wailed: "Father, why have thou forsaken me?"

When Guru Arjan was tortured 1600 years later, he felt the pain though he did not lament his suffering. God the Father had not abandoned him. Instead, Guru Arjan essentially said: "Thy Will be done." His words at that time were of cheerful acceptance of the Will of God and the wish always to be imbued with the love of God. Guru Gobind Singh saw his two young teenaged sons go to war, never to return. He knew when his two younger sons were bricked up alive but did not recant their faith. His answer speaks of the man: "What if I have lost four sons, there are countless more." He was pointing to his followers then. Surely, he knew a father's pain. Certainly, the Gurus shared our human experience but were able to transcend it. Otherwise, they would have little to show us and nothing to teach us. If they felt no pain, what can they tell us about it? If they faced no temptation, they can hardly teach us how to manage ours.

On the other hand, I look at the political divisions and factions in our young Sikh community. I have come to see how difficult it is to knit our vibrant Sikhs into a unified group and lead them towards a common goal in a single direction. The Gurus created a pride of lions, not a flock of sheep - a nation of individuals, fearless and not afraid to go alone. Yet, these same Sikhs who follow no man, willingly and freely followed their Gurus through pain, suffering, war and often to certain death; and now hundreds of years later, in the name of their Gurus, they still walk that road and the extra mile.

I wonder if there can be a more vivid proof of the Gurus' divinity. I think in fruitless arguments about the humanity or divinity of the Gurus, we miss or devalue the essential elements of their teaching.

The core of Sikh teaching - how to live and die with dignity - had to be taught by example. Mere words would lose relevance with time. The Gurus taught that salvation does not lie in renunciation but in a life of involvement as a householder. Marry, have a family, make an honest living, share the rewards of life with your fellow beings, and spend a life with your mind attuned to the infinite reality within. In a life devoted to truth, be prepared to lay your life on the line for honesty, integrity and honour. These are the essentials of a useful, productive life.     

The Gurus taught that empowerment of a people occurs only when they have learned the essentials of a good, centered life where God is sought through a responsible, ethical life of honest self-effort and service to mankind. The inner life must be consistent with and effortlessly merged with the external reality of action in the society and this world. Worship no one but the infinite within, serve no master but truth, live a productive life within the community, taught the Gurus. Truth and truthful living were the first lessons of Sikhism that Guru Nanak gave. He taught the way to responsible, ethical, honest family life. By example and by teaching the Gurus rejected the caste system, elevated women to equal status, taught people to share, and so on.

The Gurus lived at a time and in a society where life and liberty of a non-Muslim were not safe. Practices such as the caste-system, female infanticide and sati dominated Hinduism. A multi-dimensional struggle for a just society was necessary. However, much as one does not entrust a bankbook to a child or a car to one who cannot drive, Nanak did not ask his followers to take up arms against tyranny and injustice. The followers had to develop the maturity, judgement,  spirituality  and discipline for that.

Before you pick up a weapon you must know what it is to die. Before you acquire power you must learn what it is to be powerless, lest you become a despot. To command one must learn to serve.

Each Guru added a chapter to this book of lessons started by Nanak; each lesson added another dimension to the Sikh - the new man, a man for all seasons.

But it is one thing to preach and quite another to do. The Gurus, therefore, lived what they taught. Now, as long as Sikhs remember their history, they will retain the lessons.     

The Gurus had shown what it is to lead a life of service. Guru Arjan and Tegh Bahadar had shown how to die with dignity for a principle. Guru Hargobind and Gobind Singh could now ask this new man - the mature Sikh - to maintain weapons but use them only if absolutely necessary for justice. By the time that the Sikh was given the power of a giant he had learned not to use it like one. Guru Gobind Singh's life was a demonstration-lesson on what it is to be completely human and a complete man in all of human dimensions - a man for all seasons.    

Not so long ago when my hundredth research publication appeared in print, I felt proud as a peacock. To me and my friends it was quite a landmark. But what is the true measure of a man?

Guru Gobind Singh showed a different yardstick. He lived the family life, married and had children. His children turned out well for none betrayed him but lived a life of rectitude, nobility, character and bravery. What more can a father ask? Guru Gobind Singh was an accomplished soldier and a General. He created a productive, fearless and honest nation out of powerless people at the fringes of society. He created leaders out of ordinary men and then subjected himself to the will of his followers. He created a nation and then credited his followers for all that he had accomplished. His door was open to the powerless as well as the elite of the day.

What greater administrative skills and dedication to the public good can one have? He was a philosopher, a writer, a poet extraordinaire. To pen over a thousand pages of verse in a variety of languages is no mean achievement. To dictate the whole Guru Granth - all 1430 pages - from memory is no ordinary skill. A connoisseur of the arts, 52 poets and many musicians sought his patronage. Guru Gobind Singh's life illustrated all the dimensions of the human existence. And he lived for only 42 years - an age at which many of us are still finding ourselves. Where most of us once dead are soon forgotten, three hundred years after Guru Gobind Singh people argue about whether he was divine.

Now that is a yardstick for the measure of a man.

The concept of original sin is not found in Sikhism, nor the idea that woman is conceived any differently - from Adam's rib, for instance - or is any less. In the Sikh view human birth is special for in the human condition man can aspire to be divine. Sikhism is a religion of joy, not of sin. Human birth is not a fall from grace, but not to fulfill its potential and its destiny would be. Knowledge is not sin, its abuse and misuse would be sinful. The sin is not in being human but in not becoming all we can be as humans.     

"Man is a useless passion," Sartre claimed. Sikhism would passionately disagree. Sikhism holds for a state of impermeable equanimity like that achieved by a candle in a windless place, where one is in tune with the vibrations of divine music - suffused by bliss, undiminished by joy or sorrow, loss or gain, unaffected by the slings and arrows of outrageous fortune. The ultimate measure of one's divinity lies in one's humanity. To be completely human by developing all that is human and noble is to become divine.

That is the only divinity, the only eternity, the only immortality open to man. To be more is not possible, to be any less is not to be fully human but to remain incomplete.

 

[Reproduced From:  Sikhs and Sikhism: A View With a Bias, I.J. Singh. The Centennial Foundation, Guelph, Ontario, Canada, 1998. Pages 9-14

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January 5, 2010

 

Conversation about this article

1: Gurmeet Kaur (Atlanta, Georgia, U.S.A.), January 05, 2010, 3:10 PM.

Your words make me fall in love with Guru Gobind Singh ji all over again. "A Man - nonpareil" - "Marad AgamRa"! Happy Gurpurab children! What a blessing to look upto such a father!

2: Jasvinder (New Zealand), January 05, 2010, 3:45 PM.

Great ... enjoyed every bit of it, specially the part where it states how human inadequecies decipher the right knowledge in wrong sense. How we don't realize that Guru Gobind Singh was a man extraordinaire. No more, no less. We all have the potential to be like him.

3: Kate (Edmonton, Alberta, Canada), January 05, 2010, 5:19 PM.

What a beautiful piece about Guru Gobind Singh ji. It strengthens my heart and reminds me exactly why I am choosing to follow the teachings of the Gurus. Thank you for posting this!

4: Ravinder Randhawa (Sydney, Australia), January 05, 2010, 8:27 PM.

This has to be one of the most remarkable and powerful writings I've encountered regarding Sikhi. I.J. Singh ji, again I thank you for your courage to stand for the truth and to share it in such a way that it makes me love this path ...

5: Inni Kaur (Fairfield, CT, U.S.A.), January 06, 2010, 3:48 PM.

This is a masterpiece! All Khalsa schools should include this essay in their curriculum.

6: Kirpal Singh (Daytona Beach, Florida), January 08, 2010, 4:13 PM.

Well done, brother! Your article, when first published was - and still is, reading it again - a superb reading for me and many others. What more can I say ... your writings are immensely thought-provoking and perpetually inspiring.

7: Hardeep Singh (Atlanta, Georgia, U.S.A.), January 13, 2010, 7:57 AM.

Dr. Sahib: A great perspective and a very pragmatic attempt to reflect the relationship between the Guru and a Sikh. You have correctly mentioned that Guru's need to be understood, beyond just an icon or an object of worship. In our spiritual domain, we realize the Divinity within us, through Guru's Bani (Shabad - Words of Wisdom), but we also have to discover the Man (person) in the Guru, to guide us in our social pursuits in daily life. As mentioned in the article, this can be only done when we read, study, discuss, talk and write about Guru sahibaan's social lives. I agree. There is a school of thought within our community who are afraid, that in an attempt to learn from the Gurus by identifying the 'Man' within them, we may downgrade their sanctity, but that may be merely our apprehension. A brave attempt!

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